“If you meet someone and they strike you as beautiful in any way, why not let them know?” – Jill Scott
We live in a narrow-minded world. Hop onto a metro, you’ll find people plugged into their phones. Sit down for a cup of coffee, they are glued to their books. You simply don’t have the time to even stand and gaze or to appreciate what is right in front of your eyes.
However, don’t you feel nice when someone says something good about you? You’ve likely gotten them when you’re a knockout in that flattering dress, or when your hair is flipping the right way at the right time on the right day. Didn’t you feel just great? If you’ve received a compliment, you should understand that he/she has taken the time to notice and appreciate things.
So, why do we then be so frugal and miserly in offering some? Maybe, we are too busy noticing what is wrong with ourselves, the world, and others, that you forget to notice what is right and beautiful. Or you feel undeserving of compliments and kindness. Further, you are self-absorbed and you see everyone as a competition.
Another reason could be that you’re shy and you do not know how to pay a compliment. I don’t know how, but I always shamelessly spread good feelings and my life in the Army has taught me that it is indeed a good thing. Whenever the ladies get together, they are never scanty in showering compliments.
Compliments needn’t be dramatic! It is so easy to do. All you have to do is find something nice to say about someone and say it to them! It could be as simple as ‘Yellow suits you!”,’I like your hairdo’,’What do I do without you!’,’That tastes really good!’ or simply ‘You Rock!”.
Paying a compliment creates an atmosphere of positive energy. You genuinely feel good, smile at the other person and there is gratitude involved. It also initiates friendships and a good rapport. A compliment gives an immediate boost to your mood. It is important to make people feel acknowledged and loved because who knows, it might even make their day! By doing so you bring people closer and thereby the relationship. Nothing makes a person feel better about themselves than a thoughtful appreciation.
I’m not asking you to flirt with the next guy you see on the pavement who throws off a scary vibe. It’s just that giving compliments is such a selfless thing to do and it also makes your heart warm and nice.
“I can live for two months on a good compliment.”
– Mark Twain
Pay a Compliment Today!
Are you game to take up this small task of giving a compliment to someone today? Your loved one or a stranger? Let your loved one know that they aren’t taken for granted. Or build a new friendship by saying a good thing to your neighbour next door.
Once done, come back and leave a comment and let me know 🙂
Thank you, folks!
You are just AMAZING!
This post was written in response to the Quote Prompt.
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Prompts for 11 May 2018 – choose any one:
- Write about a strange experience that you’ve had – one that can’t be explained rationally.
- “If you meet someone and they strike you as beautiful in any way, why not let them know?” – Jill Scott
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What a lovely post you’ve written in response to the prompt. You inspire me to write for Friday Reflections too. It really is nice to compliment someone and to brighten their day with just a few sincere words.
I love your take on the prompt, Shalini. Very unique. I compliment strangers, as well as family and friends, all the time. It is such a feel good thing to do and I love how getting a compliment lights up peoples faces!:)
I complimented many on their Whatsapp display pic! 😛 But truly this is a habit we all should inculcate. At home I make sure to compliments to my mom for the tasty food. 🙂
Oh, I love compliments and make it a point to shower them on people, too, whether they are family, friends or strangers. I read a quote sometime back about how you need to choose your words with care. A few good words can make someone’s life, for they may be the only kind words they might hear!
If you haven’t already figured it out from the several comments so far, yes, I am binge-reading your blog today to catch up on what I’ve missed while I was on a break. And it’s always such a joy to read you, Shalini, especially because your positivity and warmth shine through the posts you write. 🙂
Coming to the topic of this post, I’m usually generous with compliments, though I never say what I don’t mean. If I cannot give a genuine heartfelt compliment, I stay mum. That being said, I usually find good things to say about people, and try to say it regularly. Like you said, it spreads positivity and we can all use more of that, everywhere.
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Nice post! A simple compliment makes someone’s day. It is simple and helpful. I compliment you for a good write up 🙂
I love compliments and I am usually not shy to share. I have gone ahead and complimented people I don’t even know 😉
Btw – have I told you I am in awe of all that you do? Muffy is such a great addition to the Nair family that I am also loving his growing up stories that you are sharing.